I don’t know to be honest. whatever I say would be a lie. I have always had people telling me oh everything will be fine, you’ll be fine, I hate that, I don’t find it useful. But my brother I think was the only person who always offered me the best advice. He is 10 years older than me, so he went through everything way before me, so during all these years, he has given me many good bits of advice. the one I liked most wasn’t advice, but he always told me, if you want something enough, nothing can stop you. So I always keep that in my mind, and it makes me mentally so much stronger.